6 Steps to Become a Great Dad
6 Steps to Become a Great Dad
The trick of being a successful father is not only to make your child happy once or twice, but you have to do it consistently. Here are some tips to be a great dad for his kids:
Know your kid's world
Make yourself comfortable with the world of children. Likewise, invite a toddler to know your world. For example, when he is busy playing, you can join then ask 'introduced' with a toy or what the child is doing. Instead, take the child occasionally to the office. Let him know what and how his father works. Also involve the child on activities that you usually do such as washing cars, fishing, or watching sports on tv.
Be their best friend
For a girl, you are her best friend and first love, therefore when she grows up , she will find a partner just like you. And for boys, you are a friend as well as an idol. Later he will imitate you as he grew up. To be his best friend, you need to know who your child's best friend is, what his favorite food is, his favorite color, his ideals when he grows up. Keep trying to update him, so he will think you are his best friend because you know everything about him.
Discuss with them
Encourage the child to discuss anything. Of course, you need to convey your ideas with a simple sentence that can be understood by children. This habit can develop child's thinking process. Listen and respond appropriately every time they expresses what they feels or thinks about. You also have to be patient when the child asks things you might never think of, because they think you already know the answer. However, if you happen to not know the answer, the child also needs your acknowledgment. Just say, "Dad also does not know the answer, let's find it together." This can encourage his spirits to find out.
Schedule special moment
Schedule special time with the child, even though your meeting schedule in the office is so full. You may find that a schedule with your child can be made flexible. However, try to position it just as important as the office business. For example, try to call the child on the sidelines of office work, or schedule a weekend as your time to hang out with the children, so there should be no other activity besides that. Because, if relying on flexibility and the term 'as much as or just about all' meet the child will tend to make you complacent not to do it.
Have fun together
You and your child must have a small but favorite thing that can only be done alone exclusively, such as playing baseball or make a funny jokes until he laughs off. If you have not found it, just find out by doing a lot of experiments. In the end, you will find the favorite little things that are fun to be done together.
Take part in the children's school activity
Find out and identify teachers, administrative staff, and friends at school. Instead of sending your wife, come to attend the meeting of parents and teachers at school so you can see the progress of the child at school. You can also help your children do their school work.
The trick of being a successful father is not only to make your child happy once or twice, but you have to do it consistently. Here are some tips to be a great dad for his kids:
Know your kid's world
Make yourself comfortable with the world of children. Likewise, invite a toddler to know your world. For example, when he is busy playing, you can join then ask 'introduced' with a toy or what the child is doing. Instead, take the child occasionally to the office. Let him know what and how his father works. Also involve the child on activities that you usually do such as washing cars, fishing, or watching sports on tv.
Be their best friend
For a girl, you are her best friend and first love, therefore when she grows up , she will find a partner just like you. And for boys, you are a friend as well as an idol. Later he will imitate you as he grew up. To be his best friend, you need to know who your child's best friend is, what his favorite food is, his favorite color, his ideals when he grows up. Keep trying to update him, so he will think you are his best friend because you know everything about him.
Discuss with them
Encourage the child to discuss anything. Of course, you need to convey your ideas with a simple sentence that can be understood by children. This habit can develop child's thinking process. Listen and respond appropriately every time they expresses what they feels or thinks about. You also have to be patient when the child asks things you might never think of, because they think you already know the answer. However, if you happen to not know the answer, the child also needs your acknowledgment. Just say, "Dad also does not know the answer, let's find it together." This can encourage his spirits to find out.
Schedule special moment
Schedule special time with the child, even though your meeting schedule in the office is so full. You may find that a schedule with your child can be made flexible. However, try to position it just as important as the office business. For example, try to call the child on the sidelines of office work, or schedule a weekend as your time to hang out with the children, so there should be no other activity besides that. Because, if relying on flexibility and the term 'as much as or just about all' meet the child will tend to make you complacent not to do it.
Have fun together
You and your child must have a small but favorite thing that can only be done alone exclusively, such as playing baseball or make a funny jokes until he laughs off. If you have not found it, just find out by doing a lot of experiments. In the end, you will find the favorite little things that are fun to be done together.
Take part in the children's school activity
Find out and identify teachers, administrative staff, and friends at school. Instead of sending your wife, come to attend the meeting of parents and teachers at school so you can see the progress of the child at school. You can also help your children do their school work.
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